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Tributes for Tails

Thursday, May 20th, 2010

Help us remember our furry friends who have gone on to pet heaven recently.  Our extended family at Memorial Funeral Home has lost four of our four legged pals just since this February.  Join us for the Potter League Walk for the Animals on Sunday, June 6 to raise some money, have some fun, and remember these four:

Malia O’Neill Edenbach

Luka Lalli

Nugget Matos

Maggie Rege

Go to our Tributes for Tails page: http://www.firstgiving.com/tributes

Thanks for supporting us, and spending a moment to remember our friends.






Pets and People – Vision Boards

Wednesday, May 19th, 2010

We’ve been busy this spring; continuing with our tried and true group schedule, meeting with families, generating fresh ideas and growing new programs.

Our new “Short Talks” series at the Middletown Senior Center continues this month, as does our general grief support group with VNS Hospice of Bristol and Newport Counties, “Building Bridges”.

One of our group members will lead “Lost and Found: A Vision Board Workshop”, to get us thinking more clearly about the future and what we want in it.

We’re gearing up for our annual “Memory Gardens” workshop in June and in September, a new project with Salve Regina University’s Department of Nursing that will allow us to more closely and effectively match students with grieving families whose children need care or mentoring.

And while Last month, Savanna taught us a little bit about grief from a teen perspective; this month we’ll focus on the younger set with help from out friends at The Potter League. Our “Pet Heaven” workshop will invite children to learn a little bit about loss and celebrating/commemorating a life lived, while making garden stones in memory of a beloved pet to take home. Below, we connect with Lynne Mallonee Sabel, Director of Humane Education about her work with children and the life lessons taught by their pets.

So try a group, experience a workshop or just stop by for a “Short Talk” if you need one and if you don’t- pass the word to someone who does!

“You think dogs will not be in heaven? I tell you, they will be there long before any of us”~ Robert Louis Stevenson

The Power of Pets

When Lynne Mallonee Sabel of the Potter League for Animals and her band of volunteers walk into a classroom, they are greeted with a warm welcome. The students all know that the topic on the table will be pets and for many of us, they are just as important as people!

Maria: What is the purpose of the Potter League’s Humane Education program ?

Lynne: Over the last 27 years, the Potter League has has grown the Humane Education program, which now reaches out to nearly all of the schools on the island and in Tiverton, to teach students about pet ownership and wildlife appreciation.

M: How do you do it??

L: We present age appropriate curriculums that last about 7 weeks. Our time is limited, but the lessons often become interdisciplinary, carrying over to other subjects at school. We also leave resources for teachers and students that stay in the classroom for the entire session including books and stuffed animals.

M: One of the lessons is on pet loss. Why go there?

L: Allowing a child to have a pet opens the door to so many life lessons: responsibility, love, loyalty and death too. We talk about saying goodbye and making it a “good” goodbye even if it feels bad at first.

M: Is there a book you’d recommend for kids who are dealing with the loss of a pet?

L: We use several good books, but I really like “The Tenth Good Thing About Barney” because it’s very accepting of different beliefs and the story walks children through that “good” goodbye.

M: How do students respond to it?

L: Not all students are ready to hear it, but many are and those who have had the experience often want to share it with us.

M: Can you help a family or speak to groups in addition to your school presentations? Are you offering other educational opportunities at the Potter League?

L: Yes, we can speak to groups and families too, and yes, this summer we’ll be offering our 2nd season of camps- to find out more about that you can log onto our website!

M: Thank you Lynne!

Groups This Month: Lost and Found

Losing a loved one can trigger many secondary losses- loss of social ties, of financial security, of identity, future plans and even meaning. If you have lost a loved one and are wondering “What’s next?”, Join us for this creative and informative workshop led by a woman who has lived through loss and found hope for the future through the use of vision boards. Come learn about the history of this technique and the science behind it, as you cut and paste your way to a vision of your own!

Please Call to register 846-0698

Thursday, May 20th, 6-8pm

Brick House 30 Red Cross Ave, Newport

Call to register, 846-0698

Up Next: Pet Heaven

A child’s first experience with grief and loss often involves a beloved pet. Be it a dog, cat, fish or turtle, children will learn about commemorating and celebrating the life of a favorite animal friend, while creating a Memorial Garden Stone to take home. Parents are welcome to stay or drop children off for this free program sponsored by MFH and The Potter League.

Please call to register: 846-0698

Saturday, May 22nd, 10:30 a.m.-12:00

The Potter League, 87 Oliphant Lane, Middletown

This Month: Lost and Found

helping a friendLosing a loved one can trigger  many secondary losses- loss of social ties, of financial security,  of identity, future plans and even meaning. If you have lost a loved one and are wondering “What’s next?”, Join us for this creative and informative workshop led by a woman who has lived through loss and found hope for the future through the use of vision boards. Come learn about the history of this technique and the science behind it, as you cut and paste your way to a vision of your own!

Please Call to register
846-0698

Thursday, May 20th
6-8pm
Brick House
Red Cross Ave
Call to register
846-0698
Up Next:  Pet Heaven
A child’s first experience with grief and loss often involves a beloved pet. Be it a dog, cat, fish or turtle, children will learn about commemorating and celebrating the life of a favorite animal friend, while creating a Memorial Garden Stone to take home. Parents are welcome to stay or drop children off for this free program sponsored by MFH and The Potter League.
Please call to register: 846-0698

Saturday, May 22nd
10:30 a.m.-12:00
The Potter League
87 Oliphant Lane
Middletown






Funeral and Cremation Terms

Thursday, May 6th, 2010

here is a glossary of commonly used, and often misused, words and terms surrounding funeral service. Some you may never use, and some we never actually use, but to take some of the misunderstanding and mystery out of making funeral arrangements, here is some help. Thanks to Jeff Smith for helping to compile this list.

Burial and Cemetery Terms-

Crypt: An above ground space capable of holding a casket.

Lawn Crypt: The pre-constructed, pre-buried vault in the ground capable of holding a casket.

Mausoleum Crypt: An above ground space in a mausoleum (building) capable of holding a casket. A space in a mausoleum capable of holding two caskets.

Endowment Care or Perpetual Care: A trust fund established to provide for the permanent upkeep and care of cemetery buildings and grounds.

Entombment: The placement of human remains in a crypt.

Funeral Service: A type of service where often the body is present in a casket.

Interment: the burial of a deceased body.

Liner: also called a Grave Box, it is an un-sealed, non-protective outer container used to encase a casket for ground burial. It is usually not required by law, however, most cemeteries require this minimum outer container to support the earth above the casket.

Lot

A group of graves in the same space of land designated for the burial of human remains.

Mausoleum: A permanent building above or partially above ground for the entombment of human remains.

Memorial on Monument: A headstone, monument, marker, name-plate or inscription identifying human remains or cremated remains (also called memorialization).

Memorial Service: A type service that may be with or without a casket, body or urn present. Can be held in a church, funeral home, or nearly any location.

Opening and Closing: The preparation of a grave, space, crypt or niche to receive the human remains or cremated remains and the sealing of the grave, space, crypt, or niche after interment.  Often the digging of an earth grave.

Plot: Two or more adjoining graves, crypts, or niches in a cemetery or mausoleum.

Vase: A receptacle for the placement of flowers on a grave, crypt, or niche.

Vault: A sealed, protective outer container used for the burial of a casket. An upgrade from a non-sealing grave liner. Often made of concrete with a fiberglass, plastic, or metal lining.

Viewing: Usually a private, set time where family members can view the decedent and make formal identification prior to cremation or burial.

Wake, visiting hours, visitation, or calling hours: A set time period where family and friends can visit a bereaved family to offer condolences, and often to view the deceased to say good bye.

Cremation Terms-

Columbarium: The arrangement of niches in a building, or a room, for the display of urns containing cremated remains.

Cremated Remains, Cremains: Often called ashes, it is the human remains after the cremation process is complete

Interment: The disposition of remains by burial, either a casket or an urn.

Inurnment: The placing of cremated remains in a grave or niche.

Memorial Service: A type of funeral service where the body is not present.

Niche: A space capable of holding cremated remains.

Opening and Closing: The preparation of a grave, space, crypt or niche to receive the human remains or cremated remains and the sealing of the grave, space, crypt, or niche after interment.  Often the digging of an earth grave.

Plot: Two or more adjoining graves, crypts, or niches.

Scattering: The spreading of cremated remains in a designated area, on land or at sea.

Urn: A receptacle into which cremated remains are placed.

Urn Vault: A sealed, protective outer container for an urn that is to be buried in the ground.

Viewing: A scheduled time where family members can view the deceased. It can be a public wake, a private gathering, or a formal identification prior to cremation or burial.

Wake, visiting hours, visitation or calling hours: A set time period where family and friends can visit a bereaved family to offer condolences and often view the deceased to say good bye.









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